Just curious - this isn't for me or anyone else.How many of you parents would be OK with your teenager having sex?
Not me.
Young adult, I'll just deal with it as long as he's being safe, but teenager? ugh! That would be torture.How many of you parents would be OK with your teenager having sex?
Anyone who is OKAY with their child having sex better have conditions to go along with it, protection and regular OB check ups.
I was a teenager once...lol not long ago, but I am always going to hope my children are smart about sex, and wait for someone they love, and are in a good relationship with. I want them to be open about it with me if they are so I can take the right percautions to protect them, but I'd rather them NOT in any way be having sex at all.
I have a son, so it wouldn't bother me. Now if I had a daughter...rrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
I personally don't think ANYONE is hunky dory about the thought of their teenager having sex. however i think if my older teen was having sex, i would be ok with it as long as he was using protection. just because you don't want your teen to have sex, doesn't mean they aren't going to. i Can't make every choice for them but only hope that they make the ones that are right for them
It would be difficult to deal with, but my parents were very good when they found out I was thinking about having sex. I had been with my boyfriend for 6 months, and I went to the doctor to get birth control. That night I told my Mom that I was starting birth control. She's not stupid... she was a teenager once too... she knew we would be having sex, so there was no point in trying to stop it.
As a parent, it would put my mind at ease knowing my daughter was protected, or my son was respectful and responsible enough to use a condom. Ideally they would be in actual love... not teenage love.
My Mom let my 17 year old sister have sex with her boyfriend[19].They've been together for almost 2 years.
My Mom took her to get the pill.
Um, I hope my sons wait to have sex until they are at least 18, but I am not that naive. I'll be lucky and proud if they wait until 16...and at the very least have it be with someone that they truly care about. I will probably have to have the sex talk with them at age 11 or 12. It is a shame how young teens, well...pre-teens are when they start now. All I can do is offer the information and hope that they make the right decisions.
Most parents are not ';ok'; with their teenager having sex regardless of the conditions or the sex of their child. When teenagers are able to fully take on the responsibilities for any consequences, then parents may reconsider that decision.
I don;t believe i will ever be ok with it. My position is to wait until marriage. But, I also know how unlikely that will be. Teach safety, preach abstinence. Close my eyes and pretend it's not going to happen?
I wouldn't be okay with my daughter having sex in her teen years at all. But once she's 18 and moves out she is supporting herself and not depending on us she can make that decision for herself, but i hope when she does move and learn life isn't rainbows and butterflies, that the rent is due on the first and bills come every month she will learn that sex isn't a priority especially when sex makes babies even if you're using birth control it fails at times and that most relationships won't last when she's young, I hope to be open with her just like my mom did with me and she'll be smart enough not to fall for the ';i love you'; from guys that try to just sleep with you or doing it for attention or because of low self esteem. I hope she gets to enjoy her youth and travels and just enjoy life.
Only if she were married and over 18.
Since I know what can happen, I wouldn't be okay with it at all under any conditions terms or whatnot. I should have waited, but I didn't. If I had a say my child wouldn't have sex until they left my home and were on their own.
my mom really does not want me having sex under any conditions. of course... but- she said if im going to do it then to ask her for the pill or a shot or something so i wont get pregnant (not that she wants me doing it but cause she wants to help me) i guess she knows teens are gonna find a way to do wut they wana do
It's a common knowledge, engaging premarital sex is a sinful act in the eyes of GOD.
For me definitely it's not ok. To all the parents out there, let's do our part, best and as much as possible to mold our children in accordance with GOD'S Standards. It's the only duty for us as parent. Let us always remind them to keep in their minds and hearts the importance of moral values. God Bless us all.
some parents just cant accept the fact that kids grow up and/or insist on cramming religion down theyr children's throats. alot of schools in the bible thumping states teach abstinence in place of actual sex ed and just look how effective that is!these are the bastard child machine states!. parents,you can lecture your kids all you want about not having sex but that still doesnt mean they will listen...let them learn how to use a condom properly and that theres a whole variety of birth control options. but sex is also something that is psychological and emotional,alot of teenagers are not mature enough to handle the psychological and emotional consequences of being in a sexual relationship. i believe that sex should only be between 2 people in a meaningful relationship.
The Bible has a lot of bad things to say about being a harlot.5 In fact, it was so frowned upon in Jewish society that, among all the laws in the Old Testament, spiritual unfaithfulness (idolatry) is compared to harlotry.6 These days, people tend to think of harlots as those who engage in multiple sexual relationships. However, the Old Testament indicates that engaging in even one sexual relationship before marriage (i.e., not being a virgin) makes one a harlot.7 Engaging in consensual sexual relations with a married person was a capital offense, and those who were found guilty (both the male and female) were executed.8 Consensual sexual relations between an unmarried man and unmarried woman resulted in the man being fined and required marry the woman without the possibility of any future divorce.9 Essentially, there was no premarital sex, since once you were caught you were married.
New Testament laws about sex
The New Testament confirms the laws of the Old Testament. Specifically, adultery is condemned,10 even including mental adultery,11 incest,12 and homosexuality.13 Other sexual sins, including premarital sex, are condemned through a couple Greek words (the original language of the New Testament) that can refer to a number of sexual sins, depending upon context. These words are porneia14 and pornos,15 from which the English word ';pornography'; is derived. English Bibles will translate these words different ways, so it is important to know some of the ways in which the words are translated. For example, the New American Standard translates the words as ';fornication';16 (e.g., premarital sexual relations) and sometimes as ';immoral persons,';17 which seems to be some kind of generic immorality, although it specifically refers to sexual immorality. Other English words used to describe premarital sex include ';unchastity.';18 The fact that these words refer to premarital sexual relations can be seen in the Pharisees answer to Jesus, where they insinuated that He was born of fornication.16 The severity of this kind of sin can be seen in the descriptions of what will happen to people who practice sexual immorality at the judgment.17
Fireproof, Special Collector's Edition DVDThe New Testament directly states that sexual activity is to be restricted to marriage in the book of Hebrews, where it condemns both adultery (engaging in sexual relations with a non-spouse while married) and fornication (engaging in sexual relations before marriage):
Marriage is to be held in honor among all, and the marriage bed is to be undefiled; for fornicators and adulterers God will judge. (Hebrews 13:4)
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Premarital sexual relationships are strongly condemned in both the Old Testament and New Testament of the Bible. Therefore, Christians who engage in premarital sex are breaking God's laws and are not following Jesus Christ. Under such practices, God is not honored, and both yours and your partner's walk with Christ is hampered. In addition, one's witness for Jesus is nullified, since even non-believers know that living together before marriage is not what a Christian should do. If you are involved in this kind of relationship, you need to repent and start living according to biblical standards. It is not okay for a Christian to keep living a sinful lifestyle, including sexual intimacy before marriage.
No I wouldn't be OK with it.
in my family, we would kill if a teenager had sex
they would probably be kicked out of the house if this happened
my family is decent and would only have sex after marriage and really mean to
My parents are fine with it, as long as i use protection and i'm with the girl as in a relationship.
I prob would let my kids do the same if i had some only because kids want what they cant have.
ive havent had sex wit my gf were 17 but mom my said if she finds out i have had sex she said she would freak and my dad just said hed say nice job buddy plus we would use protection
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